In Pursuit of Happiness
“We hold these truths to be sacred & undeniable; that all men are created equal & independent, that from that equal creation they derive rights inherent & inalienable, among which are the preservation of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness; …”
The Declaration of Independence of
the United States of America
Do you recall the last time you were really, really happy?
I hope you can recall the feeling.
You were probably smiling, and you felt really good.
Your stress was probably minimized, and you were optimistic about your future. Other people were more drawn to you because of your happy mood, as well.
Can you see how a person who is happy and less stressed is more likely to attract good things into their lives than someone who is unhappy, stressed and close-minded?
I recently saw a life-changing talk about this topic by Amy Cuddy, a Harvard researcher and business professor. Her premise is that even if you don’t feel totally happy, if you smile and open yourself up to the possibility of happiness, you will probably feel happier. In other words, you can fake your way into happiness.
I am sharing her very famous Ted Talk with you here today because I feel it is a really important idea with regard to personal branding. www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ks-_Mh1QhMc
After you’ve watched Amy’s Ted Talk, take a few moments and think about how, in business, you can attract more people (customers or employees) when you feel happy and open to the possibilities. Happiness often comes in moments, not hours or days at a time, so try to notice the moments of happiness in your day, and recognize how it makes you feel and how it opens your mind.
I’ve always tried to convey a sense of happiness to others. I try to smile as often as possible, and I enjoy a good laugh as often as possible. That’s part of my personal brand and I feel it’s been part of my success in building a large national (and international) network of business contacts and friends.
The PR Maven® is about helping people define and manifest their personal brand so they can attract the right opportunities and feelings of happiness into their lives. If you want to define your personal brand and learn more about our 10-Step Process to manifest your personal brand in order to attract the right kinds of people and opportunities into your life, please send me a note at firstname.lastname@example.org.